šØWeāve talked with our teensā¦šš¼šØ
Weāve talked with our like-minded friends with teens.
Weāve talked with elders who have adult kids now.
Whether your kids want to go to church or notā¦.
Force them. šš¼
āļø Youāre not going to make someone hate church. God is more powerful than you.
āļø If someone says church messed them up cuz all it did was make them feel guilty, then itās going to be great for them to learn their sin and Godās Grace. (Which comes from hearing the Word of God)
āļø If they say itās not fun, you say thereās a lot of things that arenāt fun in life but theyāre good for you. As your heart is humbled, mourned, and regenerated, oh how the āboringā things become fun! šÆ
āļø If you think that when theyāre older theyāll finally make a choice to go, theyāre going to say well it wasnāt that important for my parents to force me so why should I force myself now. š¤·š»āāļø
A common thing we see in the church is husbands pushing back the same way kids do. Same rules apply. Force them. š
Lest we never forget, it starts with us.š„
I used to think it was better to not force kids to go to churchā¦
But thatās because I wasnāt understanding the importance of forcing myself yet.
The flesh is weak but the Spirit is strong.
Oh, there was a time when I said I can do this on my own. Yup, I actually would tell Amber, āyou go to church. I donāt need it.ā This was far into my walk yāall, not at the beginning! Shame on me. I should have known better.
I used to say that people pushed me away. In my luke-warmness, thankfully God called me out. You need a church body. The body encourages, holds accountable, refines, and grows. Jesus would have never established the church and called it His bride if he didnāt care about it and establish our need for it. (Ephesians 5, Revelation 19)
Church is about you worshipping the Lord. People may disappoint. He never does. When He truly brings you to church, people canāt push you out.
Teens donāt understand that yet (they also donāt like diddly squat)ā¦
Just like we force them to eat healthyā¦
To stay committed to the gym and sportsā¦
To not give up in schoolā¦
We force them to church.
Itās just my opinion. But church is the last place we should neglect right now.š¤Æ
Thereās a lot of things that have changed my mind over the years. READ MORE HERE.
God Bless,
Coach Theo

